Friday, May 29th | 5:30pm – 8pm Pacific Time
Some people believe that you can only get pleasure through sex or more specifically intercourse. That someone else “MAKES” them orgasm and it is that person’s responsibility. They also believe that if they don’t orgasm that it is someone’s fault, be it their own or the people that they are sexual with. Someone must be doing something wrong or the very common “What’s wrong with me?” What if I told you that it is no one’s fault? That there is nothing wrong with you and that YOU are responsible for your own orgasm
What if you could control when you cum? What if orgasm was easy and not something to get right? We put a lot of pressure on the orgasm being the pinnacle of sex and if it doesn’t happen the sex wasn’t good. And many people don’t even know what is pleasurable for them in the first place.
In the Power of Pleasure Autonomy we will look at why masturbation is important, the autonomy of pleasure and some fun masturbation techniques. In this workshop you will gain agency over your orgasm, let go of the shame that can come with orgasm and some new techniques for stimulating your body. Hang on tight! This is about to get fun!
Nika Cherrelle
Pleasure & Intimacy coach, Nika Cherrelle empowers people across all cultural backgrounds. By breaking down taboo, they are creating a world where all people feel loved, honored and respected.
They have devoted their career to understanding the deep impact of shame on our mental well-being, particularly when it comes to sexuality. Working with individuals and couples to discover what self-love means to them, they help them break through barriers to access pleasure they never thought possible.
Owner of The House of Cherrelle, Host of the ‘It’ Cast: Real Talk on Sex and the Co-Founder and Executive Director of the International Institute for Sexual Empowerment (IISE), their work has been featured with The San Francisco AIDS Foundation, SOMArts Cultural Center, and in Math Magazine, Bitch Media, Slate, Cosmopolitan and Women’s Health Magazine.
Carol Queen PhD
I am a Staff Sexologist and Good Vibrations Historian at Good Vibrations, the women-owned, worker-owned sex toy and book emporium, where I direct Continuing Education for the staff. I also curate the company’s Antique Vibrator Museum.
My own educational events are organized through Carol Queen Workshops and the Center for Sex and Culture, a non-profit sexuality education center which my partner Dr. Robert Lawrence and I founded. We also teach frequently at Good Vibrations and its sister stores around the US and Canada, as well as at sexuality conferences of various kinds.